Showing posts with label Church Planting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Church Planting. Show all posts

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Vision.



Have you ever been apart of something that you just got, and understood the importance of ?
I remember when we planted our church, and how we wanted to make the vision that God gave us so clear that our congregation could repeat it and say it within a 30 seconds to anyone who asked. Doing this allowed them to know our hearts, see where we were going, and take ownership.

Love God, Love People, Change The World.
Love God - Using discipleship to grow people's relationship in the Lord, and that everything we do must come under us Loving God.
Loving People - Loving people right were they were. intentionally loving them. How often do you recognize your leaders ? People who greet, run the nursery ? They must feel loved and valued.
Change The World- The great commission going out into the all the world and sharing the gospel.
Could be thru providing quarters at the laundry mat, free childcare, giving water bottles to people when they come out of the bar at 3:00 in the morning. The list is endless, but basically to serve.

I know several churches that have such a "Simple" approach to their vision and church.
WE as a body of believers and ministry leaders complicate things so much .
We have programs for programs and we keep our calendars full and busy.
We spin a bazillion plates at one time praying that one won't hit the floor while the others are all spinning.
However is your vision or lack of vision so complicated that you aren't even taken care of your first responsibilities.
1) Your relationship with the Lord
2) Your relationship with your spouse
3)Your Children
4)Your Ministry/Job
So often #4 dictates #1-#3 umm how backwards ?!?!?
My friend Melissa Elswick recently said in an online conference.
“Tip the scale toward ministering to our family first, our children are our most important disciples. Don’t just say yes to a good thing… say yes to a better thing… your family.”
My friend Angie and her husband planted a church and have had a huge life changing event, but in that so much good has come. I know Jon & Angie will someday be able to share how out of balance people have come in ministry. Check out this post here. If your critical of her thoughts, I can pretty much tell you that's the Holy Spirit tapping on your shoulder saying (cough cough).

So back to my main point - Vision.
Keep it follow able by people in your church.
Become Fearless but Fear the Lord (If God is leading you to do something, but you don't want to ruffle feathers, you will ruffle more by sitting and doing nothing, and you will lead your church to a slow death, and probably your family.)
Most of all Have a Vision. (winning souls isn't just enough, people want to see and understand the "how" behind it, and know what happens once they find Jesus). Not only does a lack of vision not lead the people in your church, but you'll go thru staff so quick because they have nothing to follow.

If you have lost the vision, you have lost the passion or your church is controlling the way you Pastor or lead your doing nothing more than prostituting yourself to believers trying to get them to buy into a mystery of your ministry.
Eventually, you will loose them because they don't know where they are going or what to follow. All ministries in your church should support the main vision of the church, if they don't peace out, that ministry needs to go away!


Last story, I remember when we were felt God leading us to pass off our church plant to someone else. The feeling of starting over, moving or having to go to another church, and learn their problems (all churches have them) was exhausting.
However, I feel so strongly if we would have stayed the church would be falling apart because God was done with us at this church. Staying longer would have been detrimental.
Part of having Vision is realizing when you have done what God asked and when it's time to move on. You may be holding your church back or you could be missing a HUGE blessing God has for you!

Final thoughts - If any of the above is you, it's never to late to shift the tide. Have a simple vision that is the umbrella of your church that all other things fall under. If it's not under the vision umbrella - it's gone.
Don't exhaust yourself, your family, your staff, your friends, and mostly your relationship with the Lord all for the sake of busy, and lack of vision.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Failure = Success

Today I'm a guest over at Sharpen Her with Tricia Lovejoy. Every Wednesday she host "Wednesdays Are For Women". Go check out my post, and while your there make sure you read thru her blog. You'll love it.
Also, their church Mountain Lake Church host a conference that is awesome. It really put so many things in perspective for our family, Velocity 2012, is for sure something you don't want to miss. Check it out and gift it to each other (you and your spouse) for Christmas! Such a life building time to meet and connect with other women in ministry! Your husband will also come out with so much wisdom! It's a must! Pop over and tell Tricia I sent you!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Straighten Your Crown

Though the cherry trees don't blossom
and the strawberries don't ripen,
Though the apples are worm-eaten
and the wheat fields stunted,
Though the sheep pens are sheepless
and the cattle barns empty,
I'm singing joyful praise to God.
I'm turning cartwheels of joy to my Savior God.
Counting on God's Rule to prevail,
I take heart and gain strength.
I run like a deer.
I feel like I'm king of the mountain!

Somedays lady's everything is wrong, but just remember your a princess and it's time to straighten your crown and do a cartwheel and stand on top of the mountain and have the strength to say we will make it.
Praying for you today!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Sunday In The Raw...

So Sunday In the Raw on Monday ????

Ha we have had such a busy week so I'm going to run down the whole week...

Thursday- Sunday (1:00 am.) My hubby was out of town.
Saturday - Found out that my washer, shower, and sink were all leaking out a hole in a pipe under our house :0) and that it had been for quite a while.
Then after making close to 70 cupcakes my kitchen faucet decided to spray all over the place and ummm needed replaced)
So are you keeping track... No washer, shower, or no clean dishes...
YES!!!
Sunday rolls around and I speak again with my hubby...
Fractured Fairytales...
Want to fracture your marriage go listen on how....

After the service we had a vow renewal for couples and we had a cupcake bar to celebrate!!

After hubby being gone, little sleep and a Sunday service guess what.... We had some amazing friends come over and fix the "plumbing" issues...

This week has been just as busy but I'm thankful for my hubby to be home... well at least until Friday :)


Sunday, February 20, 2011

Sunday Night Meltdown.

Last Sunday I had a conversation with a friend at Starbucks, and we got onto the topic briefly about being raw. I said sometimes I leave blogs in "waiting" or on "hold" until I have gotten over the emotion of what I was writing about and can read over it again, and change the tone.
Today I ask myself is that being real, or is that having wisdom ?
I am going to dare to say it's a bit of both.

So I have decided that your going to get a raw me on Sunday Nights.
When I'm tired.
When I'm emotional.
When I don't have much left.
Why ? Because that's the real me.
Maybe just maybe it will reach out to someone, who thinks they have to hide....
thinks they have to carry it all.
Maybe it's just for me.

So Sunday Meltdown 2/20/11

Creating a culture of people who willing will serve is difficult. We do have some awesome volunteers and I can't wait to see God bring us the ones we are praying for.
Children's Ministry is an area that I think will be ever growing, ever changing and ever evolving. Did you know that I don't feel "Called" to Children's Ministry ?
What I do feel called to is serving in a capacity that God needs me to, which means serving in Children's Ministry and other areas to allow others to be in service.
Did you know I'm not perfect and make mistakes in this area ?
Yup.
We are praying feverishly for God to provide for our needs in this area. We are needing to split to 3 rooms, and need more workers, and we would love to hire a children's/family Pastor. I love this problem. It means we have the opportunity to speak into the lives of children every week.
Will you pray for some solutions to this problem ???
So although I don't feel called I do what I need to do to make it work, and help create an environment where the children can thrive and learn about Jesus.

Okay enough about our awesome children!

Sunday's sermon: Put A Ring On It.
I actually saw this sermon title last year, and forgot about it, but as my husband and I were working on our Love Struck series this title came back to my mind and just fit.

The sermon was on SEX.
Yup we went there. So many people are shocked that this would be discussed in church but guess what EVERYONE, EVERYWHERE else is talking about. So why not know what God says about it ???

We established the Marriage and the Marriage bed and what God intended.
We went over pain,shame,regrets.
We talked about how it's not a bad word and how it is intended to be a beautiful thing when used in it's proper context.

We gave several ways to keep to a commitment and to honor God.
Did I mention my hubby and I did this together ??? It was really fun, and only a little awkward. (His parents come to our church)

Then we decided to help be the solution. When we looked around us, talked to couples and heard what they all had to say we knew that offering a wedding was the best option. So many say it cost to much, just not sure where to start.

So this summer WE ARE HAVING A WEDDING!!!

We will be doing pre-marital counseling for any of the couples who are wanting to honor God with their commitment.

Then we will be providing Wedding Decorations....
A Cake.

Invitations to send out.


Flowers to carry.



We will also be providing a photographer.

Why are we doing this....
So many churches want to point out the sin...
Point out how awful you may be for having sex...
For living with someone...
We want to point you to the truth...
We want to help you honor and follow God...

We want to take you back to your
"Once Upon A Dream"

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Pearl of Great Price.

The Kingdom of Heaven is like a pearl merchant on the look-out for choice pearls. When he discovered a pearl of great value,he sold everything he owned and bought it! (Matthew 13:45-46)
I am about to explain my limited knowledge on how a pearl is created. Please don't correct me if I'm wrong because it would just ruin my whole story. :)

Inside an oyster is a tiny muscle in the course of the oyster’s development, a foreign substance such as a grain of sand gets into the little muscle and irritates the oyster. In response, the oyster covers that irritant with a secretion. The longer the irritation is there, the more the oyster coats it. Pearl oysters vary in size and can be quite rough and ugly. Yet what is happening inside is a combination of rainbows, moonlight, and bits of flame. Once the oyster accepts the irritation as part of itself, the pearl begins to develop. The worst storms, gales, even hurricanes will not dislodge it. As time goes by and this oyster is finally pulled up from the bed where it has been for many years, it is opened only to reveal a beautiful pearl.

So why I'm a telling you about a pearl you ask ? You see I am pretty sure it represents most of our lives (in ministry or not).
1. God sees something in you (like he did the oyster)
2. He plants a special seed in you and covers you with his Grace
3. When chosen sometimes it's ugly, we cry because it's not what we had planned and we don't want to embrace it.
4. However we say "Yes"
5. Overtime the outside is so ugly as we are growing, but what God is doing in our hearts is amazing!
6. Sometimes it takes years for God's beauty to be unveiled to the World and those around.

Specifically for you in Ministry, Adoption ect... God planted something amazing in you! He in-trusted you with something... what an honor, and privilege (I understand it doesn't always feel that way).
I know that sometimes that little spec of dirt or seed that God planted in us to something BIG sometimes feels at a stand still, but just remember every pearl comes out a different size, shape and color and yours may not look like anyone else's but it was God given,and God planted.

Embrace the Pearl of Great Price.
Remember the scripture above he gave up EVERYTHING to buy that one great pearl.
Some of you have given up everything and putting all your eggs in the pearl that God has asked you to nurture and carry!


Be thankful that God choose YOU!!!
There are things to embrace while going thru those small tough hard beginnings or those long overworked days.
While your in the oyster being beautified what can you embrace ???


Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Haiti on my Heart

I would like to introduce to you, Ellison & Rose.
These two beauties are now apart of our church family!!



Our Children's ministry is sponsoring these children monthly to provide for them their needs.
The Children are going to be taught about giving.
The Children are going to give, not the adults.
The Children need to earn the $.
Take ownership.
They will write letters to Ellison & Rose.
They will see how spoiled and well they have it, and how difficult daily life is for Ellison & Rose.
15 Children need to give $1 a week. That's $4 a month for each of those 15 children.
I'm pretty sure they can give up Juice, Candy, run a lemonade stand etc... to see Ellison & Rose learn about Jesus, get food, and be loved on by the folks at Holt International.
We are teaching our Children they can make a difference....
Here
Now.
I will leave you with this.
James 1:27
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

Church Planters.

So Ladies I'm leading a Virtual Group over @ Leading and Loving It
It's specifically for Church Planters Wives!

I am inviting you to join apart.
My group will meet 1x a month on Tuesday's @ 10 EST.

There are other groups that could fit your need or time schedule.

Go HERE to register and be apart of this community of women!!

All instructions are on the above link!!

Friday, January 14, 2011

Messy Church.

Your Invited...

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Loads of Love...


Several Months ago my husband and I drove to Charlotte, North Carolina to lead worship for a conference. I don't know about you, but sometimes these little trips are exactly what we need to plan and brainstorm for the future of our ministry. I propped a whole bunch of sticky notes and a huge calendar up on my lap, with a pencil for notes. On the 5-hour drive we were able to accomplish so much, and get so much down on paper. We got to to dream and scheme without interruptions. Our church has a huge vision to love our city. Red. Yellow. Black. White. Gay. Alcoholic. Addict. We think you still deserve to feel God's love. We like that do do that through tangible acts of service. Doing things that leave people going "Huh?" Loads of Love was one of those acts of service. Continue Reading HERE

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Where's October ?

This last month has seriously gone by so fast! My blog has gotten neglected because of well... LIFE! So here is a quick update and i'm sure I will detail it more in the next few days with pictures! We all know I love pictures! I have slow week (well slower) and hope to do lot's of blog hopping and blog loving!

So here is my crazy list.

* Me out of town in Springfield MO with ladies from our former church for 5 days.
* During that same time my husband was in Cleveland TN doing worship @ a conf. with our 2 oldest.
* My daughter that is 2 spent her time in Atlanta.
(P.S. Thanks so much to my amazing home team girls who helped with our nutso schedules and holding our arms up!!!) We love you girls!!! IF your a Ministry chic and don't have a home team or know what one is let me know and I will fill ya in :)
* Getting back from out of town we had 5 fieldtrips between 2 children.
*Kerry are amazing friend from Michigan relocated here and we helped her settle in, which included meals, and laughs with her family and trips to Atlanta to the airport.
*A Birthday Party for 18 little Pre-K children. My sweet Connor turned 5!!!
*I started a part time job at Bath and Body Works
* Loads of Love - Outreach at the Laundry Mats
* Crisis Pregnancy Banquet
* Fall Break
* New Life Group Launch
* Hubby working & Music Lessons
* Dance Practice
* Soccer Practice & 4 Soccer Games& Final Awards Ceremony
* Friends from Michigan in town for 5 days
* Normal Sunday Service
* Deep Root's Festival where our church had a fun Photo Booth!
* In between all of this lot's of family loves, kisses, little ice cream dates here and there. Some late night snuggles and early morning loving. Lot's of awesome Jesus moments!

Can I also say this month still has a week left!!

So tell me has your October been as crazy ????

Monday, September 20, 2010

Dessert & Games

I love having a community with other girls.
When your first building a church i can't tell you how valuable friendships and relationships are.
I love the fact that we can cut loose, let our hair down and have fun.

We had a girls dessert & game night Saturday at the church.
Every girl brought a dessert to share.
We decorated with fall decor.
We played some fun team games and Apples to Apples.
I think my favorite team game was telephone charades... you must try it.

I did a 10 minute devotion on your influence and spreading it on other people.

We gave away some prizes for best dessert and everyone got to take home a mini smores pack.

Here are some pictures to go with the night...

This is Nancy & Brianna, God brought them down here from Michigan! We are so thankful for their servants heart and willingness to serve where needed.
The Cafe' area.
All the girls/women got the pack of "Here's S'more Loving"
Some of the prizes included Gift Certificate for a pedicure.
An adorable watch from Jack & Darcy was one of the favorite prizes.

This is Nicole, she just loves kids!
Natasha & Rhonda what sweet ladies.

Emily & Anna what sweet sisters.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Pretty Please!!!

Hey guys this is so beyond simple.

My husband Benjamin Scott posted a video on Youtube and needs you to simply click the link and watch him sing... not to hard. I don't think you even need to watch the whole thing , however I think you would want to!

If you would leave a comment that would be awesome too!

They are narrowed down to the top 5 with the most views and then the production staff at The Fish 104.7 will pick a winner to open up for the Celebrate Freedom Concert in September. We would also win $10,000 for our new church that we just started, and to say that this would help would be an understatement! We would also win $10,000 for our family which would also be a huge help right now!

You can go watch everyday (I believe), but really the goal is to spread it to others who have never heard it so if you could repost the link to your friends that would really help!

Thank you all so much!!!

Here is the Link to the Youtube Video


You may have to copy and paste the link..

Oh and if you leave me a comment telling me you watched i may have a surprise drawing for a prize!


Monday, June 21, 2010

Our Cannon



This is from Numbers 13, and I have re-wrote it to fit my story, where God has called us.

The Lord said to Ben & Rachael "Go and explore the land of Milledgeville, which I am giving to you. So at the LORD's command Ben & Rachael went out from Michigan to see if this is really the land that God has called them to.

While there they visited with many people.

They drove around downtown and saw the collage students around downtown, who are diving in trying to find their purpose.

They drove thru the South side of town, where poverty is huge, and racial tension is not a thing of the past.

They hung out with family and friends and realized, people are broken. The Church has had so many failures that people have forgotten what it is like to rely on God, and not put man on a pedestal.

They drove thru the hills of the country and drove silent as it was getting immanent that God was sending them to this region.

Broken homes, broken families were all abound.

1/2 will not graduate in this land.

The amount of fatherless is heart wrenching.

The county here contributes the most in lottery playing, which shows us that people are putting their hope in things that are here on earth, and not our Father in heaven.

Ben & Rachael drove around looking for buildings, and dreaming of what could be. Terrified out of their mind they headed back up I-75 to a place where friends abound, dreams have been fu-filled and life was rich.

Reality and the weight set in. Goodbyes are awful.

God gave them the land. He gave them a building. He gave them a house.

They prayed God would send who they needed.

When God sent them to explore Milledgeville, he said, See what the land is like and whether the people who live there are strong or weak, few or many. What kind of land do they live in? Is it good or bad? What kind of towns do they live in? Are they unwalled or fortified? How is the soil? Is it fertile or poor? Are there trees on it or not?

They came back to Michigan and the whole community at The Freedom Center was waiting. There they reported to them and to the whole assembly and showed them the fruit of the land.

They gave this account: "We went into the land to which God has sent us, and it does flow with milk and honey! Here is its fruit. But the people who live there are powerful, and the cities are fortified and very large. They are hurting and without Hope. They are fatherless and don't know the great father.

"We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it with the Lord's help."


What do you need to go take possession of today ? Is it your finances, your marriage, or your relationship with the Lord ? I'm sure whatever it is is flowing with milk and honey and you can take possession.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

momma said...


Momma Said there would be days like these there would be days like this momma said...
Uh huh who remembers that song ???
I think it's my motto the last few days.

I'm missing me some Michigan.
Planting a church is hard.
It's even harder going into the summer months.
Normal churches who are established always hit a summer slump...
Trying to embrace this, and know it's just a season.

We are only 11 weeks into our plant and we are seeing new faces every week, so not all is bad.

A few questions to my loyal friends :)

What are some way's you have dealt with Summer slumps in attendance or giving ?
What are some fun summer things you have planned as a Church Community ?

love to you all.


Friday, March 5, 2010

Take Him Out of The Box.

I know this may not mean much to anyone else reading this blog, however to me I want to record every moment. The good, the bad, the pitfalls all of our church planting experiences.
God is blowing us away!
Here is the deal we have become bold in asking God to give us the resources we need. Wether that be borrowed materials, or things given to us because we asked. The bible is clear about asking! Ask ~ and it will be given to you. Seek ~ and ye shall find ~ Knock and it shall be opened up to you. So here is just a few things going on in the church planting world...
* God moved an incredible family down to us this week from Michigan. They uprooted their whole life, family, job it all. They came to help us start this ministry! Yeah God!
*He is providing resources. We have been given some flat screen tv's for the words, and scriptures to be put on during the service....HUGE!
*The Church roof was damaged by hail and it's being replaced by insurance money!
*Our home church in Michigan is coming down and doing an AMAZING remodel for us to get the building up to code for kids, and for adults.... seriously so EXCITED!
*We are borrowing chairs from another local church... they offered us to borrow extras until we can afford to purchase some!
* And a HUGE possibility that the shaggy green carpet is coming up and being replaced!
*I had an amazing time with a young women that has had a really rocky road in life. God has huge plans for her and she is open and receptive.... she has a gorgeous smile and is very very friendly! Watch out Milledgeville that smile just may lead you to Jesus!
*We are making our service launch preparations, continuing our life groups, reading the new testament.... Ready In 30! the whole new testament in 30 days! We have also began to get our ideas for
I Heart
M'ville into action..

A few of the ideas....well i won't share yet but they are AWESOME! Seriously if you live in Milledgeville you need to come to life group on Wednesday at 6:30 to get involved in all that is going on! Don't you want to be apart of lives changed ?
Take God out of the religious box we have put him in and let's go lead people to the truth of the cross... the power of love.

I'm going to start a list on my side bar ------------------------------>
of things that we would like to have. Some may seem silly to ask for but really we are walking in his foot steps and if popcorn and movie outside this summer will lead a family to Jesus then you better believe we are going to ask for a popcorn machine!

If your family would like to bless our ministry it is all tax deductible thru the church so just email me at girlfriendwithapurpose@gmail.com for details!

What cool things is God doing in your life right now ?


Saturday, January 23, 2010

Welcome Packets...


If you visit a church for the first time do they offer you a visitors pack ?

If so what is in it ? Do you have to raise your hand or stand to get it ? Do they tell you to go to a certain spot and get after service ? What's in the package ? Just trying to get some thoughts processed... thanks friends.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Children's Ministry

So Children's Ministry is all NEW to me :)
Yes my children were involved at our last church on a weekly basis but because of my responsibilities I was not really ever involved in that dept.
So for you ladies out there that read this blog that have helped with a church plant or started a church plant can you tell me how you started your children's ministry ?
We are starting small group next week with a core group of people and i have been selected to supervise the children. We will have anywhere from infant to 6 years old. So.... while the adults are learning and studying i want the same for the kids. I realize a 2 year old has no attention span for listening to stories but i know they can do some other things. So just would be curious how did you start ?

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

The Family Room.

Wow what a whirlwind life has been the last umm week and a half or so.
I got some great pictures to show you! Really excited about them actually!
We are doing a church plant in Georgia, and we were given a facility to use. It's WAY out of date but we don't have a mortgage on it, and it has a parsonage that is being rented out so that is income for us! Praise God!
We are starting our church core with small group type atmosphere to get to know our core dream team and to really invest our vision to them. Our home is not a place for that. We are 12 miles outside of town and it's not conducive to meeting right now. So we know we needed a spot to have our small group and also to host the adults so we took what we had and beautified it!
Ikea here we come!!
We spent so many hours with 3 kids... at the church painting, cleaning, putting furniture together etc... so glad it paid off! I personally think it's gorgeous!

Before Pictures of the overcrowded Office. Big Furniture.
and here it is now... a bright cheery kids room. We still have details to finish but you will see so far...


The picture frames still need to filled with smiling faces of little children :)


This is the area where are smocks will be hung, tissues, cleaners etc will be out of reach of young ones. we plan to have every child wear a smock to protect their clothes, booties over their shoes to not bring in germs.

This is the story area where we will do songs to dvd's for now, and we will also have a short story time, while the adults are having their time in small group.
Here is where a lot of work went. Before a room that is very WHITE and sterile.


After = a comfy cozy place where people can pour their hearts out, challenge each other and love Jesus! So excited for small groups to begin!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Take a spin on the Color wheel

Okay calling out to my blogging buddies.
I have to go paint today. Lot's of paint.
We are painting the hallways, the former fellowship hall that is now a family room setting and a nursing mothers room. All the rooms pretty much flow together so they all need to pretty much have the same color. I plan to have an accent color in the family room, something with a splash of color. So here is wear you come in. What are your favorite neutral NON WHITE colors. I'm thinking tans, browns, etc.. and what color would you splash on the accent wall ?

I really like the tan color in this one...


What about the asparagus green in this one for an accent wall
Bleached Denim ? Aren't the names so fun! I love this blue wall as an accent...


And i also really like this tan neutral as well...
So tell me ? What are your favorite wall color choices ???

 
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