There is just something about that show that sucks ya in... yeah i know shame on me for watching such a show. However I find it actually interesting how the whole thing works, how these girls prance around in their bathing suits (if that's what a small piece of fabric is), how they will kiss a guy that is also kissing several of their housemates etc...
One thing I did come up with is these girls will fight, sometimes literally, sometimes using physical power, or their looks or their words to get this man. I wonder what will happen once they get them and they are tired of fighting for their man, when the competition is gone ? How will they keep that fire going when there are no lavish dates and the cameras are gone.
It's kinda the same in our marriages ya know ? We girls work so hard to look good, to eat nice, to make sure the dates are perfect, and to not let our "ugly side" show.
Once you get married the fight is gone... you have the man you have the ring now what ? No one prepares for what it looks like... the good the bad the ugly. What happens when the money bank is dry and you can't go on fun dates, what happens when your not feeling good and the spicy sexy wife isn't feeling that way.
So here is the question ~How do you fight for your marriage ? What do you do to keep that spark going ? How do you stay close when you have kids hanging on ya ? Let's share our ideas and help each other out!